In many cultures of the past, and even in some cultures today, females have been deemed less valuable and important than males. The degradation of females has manifested in countless ways and forms: females have been considered property rather than human; we have been abducted and sold into sex trafficking businesses; we have been forbidden to participate in religion, education and the workplace; we have been persecuted for our sexuality while men have had few boundaries with theirs.... Men have used their physical power to usurp power over females in all areas, creating societies of male domination.
I have an empowered life, a life where my femininity is valued equally to the masculine. I have been equally educated. I have worked equally in the workplace. My husband values my unique perspective and gifts and contributions to our relationship. I have lived a life of balance. Although the efforts of enlightened men and women over the last hundred years have created laws in our country that have given me equal rights and privileges to males, I was fortunate enough to be born at a time when this equality has felt inherent, normal and natural.
We know God to be everything, all-encompassing, yet our Judeo-Christian culture personifies God as male. I believe that the growth in goddess-focused spirituality is the counterbalancing of the conceptualized masculine God, just like the feminist movement of the 60‘s and the 70‘s was counterbalancing to our society’s imbalance favoring males.
Balance and harmony are natural spiritual laws and principles. This is true for our external world and experience, as well as our internal state of being. The Chinese yin yang symbol is a perfect illustration of balance. The white half contains a seed of the black, the black half contains a seed of the white, and each half fits, complements and moves perfectly with the other to create balance and wholeness.Yin and yang aspects are present in everything in the natural world, although either the yin or yang element may manifest more strongly in different objects, or at different times. Likewise, every soul is comprised of both masculine and feminine energies, as is Source/God.
Probably because I am female, I find it difficult to grasp the historical motivation of men to lessen females, so I asked my husband about his thoughts on this. Trey’s personal perspective is that the drive to exert power over females is created by the tendency of males to solely live from and express their masculine energy, and to ignore and deny their feminine energy, creating an imbalance of energies within many males.
This makes sense to me. These seemingly polar forces are in reality interconnected and interdependent. The suppression or denial of either energy creates disharmony and imbalance within, and without. Oppression seems a natural consequence of suppressed feminine energy.
I am blessed to spend my life with a man who balances his dominant masculine energy by merging with, rather than splitting from, his gentler feminine energy, and it is a joy to raise a son who understands that true empowerment comes with honoring both energies of Self.