Our youngest child Gracie is currently immersed in a “spicy challenge” in her life, and yet the pervasive energy is authentic power.
Gracie recently decided to transfer to a different university and soccer program. She doesn’t yet know where she will land, but she is in the process of talking with and visiting other soccer programs. The reactions of her teammates and coaches to her decision to transfer have been mixed, but of course the negativity is the most difficult to deal with.
When you are in a relationship with another person, you hope...
to feel supported by that person
to feel that the other person knows you...understands you... gets you
to feel that the relationship lifts you up and provides fertile grounds for you to be an even better person
to feel that there exists mutual respect.
When you find yourself in a relationship where...
you feel beaten down
you feel less than and never good enough and begin to doubt yourself
you feel your passion and energy drained and lost
...you KNOW that your relationship is not in alignment with your intentions and journey; no right or wrong here, no blame on either person, just simply a mismatch of personalities.
Your feelings in any relationship or situation are the purest indicator of your alignment.
Gracie’s feelings have given her the strength of clarity to make a change for better alignment. Her decision is self-empowering and role models for so many of us what honoring and respecting and loving yourSelf actually looks like.
Some of her beloved teammates may never understand her decision, but, thankfully, Grace is wholly tapped in to, and honoring, what is healthiest for her. Only you know what is right for you. No one else can dictate or control that.
I am overwhelmed with awe witnessing my daughter create and manifest in “miracle” energy, the energy of creating through love with all fear released, allowing like energies, like intentions, like alignments to flow freely and connect effortlessly to each other. I second the sentiment of one of her teammates, “Hell yeah Gracie you rock! You do you like you always do!”
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