Trey, Mason, Grace and I just enjoyed several days in picturesque Chattanooga, TN with Trey’s mom, aunt and uncle. We had a wonderful time reconnecting with family with whom I never feel like we have enough time. We were blessed to hear stories of their pasts, as well as to witness them thriving in their 70’s and 80’s. I was truly inspired by how they live each day with such a high energy level and passion! Absolutely incredible and beautiful to witness!
Spending time with some of our senior family members prompted me to focus on the positives of aging. At the age of 53 and definitely feeling the decline of my body and energy level, I realized that it is easy to focus on the negative changes that aging brings to my day to day experience and that I would be well served to start focusing on the positive changes. Thank God that there are some exquisite transformations!
Living less from the head and more from the heart. I find myself advising my children to honor their intelligence as a tool to be consciously used and not to allow their brains to rule them and dictate their reality. Live from the heart with your head supplementing and supporting your creations.
Less stress and the allowance or the freedom to do what you want to do, and live how you want to live, and be who you want to be. I am not sure why we typically wait until we are older to shift our focus, but it feels very freeing to release the need to please others and to honor yourself and your own desires.
Greater appreciation and presence with family, friends, and others. I’m not sure if it is the creeping awareness of a limited time on earth, or the loss of loved ones, or both, but I savor my time with loved ones now in a way I never did when I was younger.
The beauty of experiencing my children as young adults and our relationships deepening and becoming more balanced and harmonized as equals/peers. So yummy to watch the lives of these beings whom you love so richly blossom into their fullness. It is like they were your caterpillar and now they are a fellow butterfly.
The prospect of grandchildren. Not rushing it or pressuring any of my three kids, just enjoying the potential!
Being middle-aged is awesome! For real!